What was Matthew Bandy accused of? Jeannie and Greg Bandy were shocked to discover that their son was charged with possession of child pornography. But after I was accused, everything changed.' 'We went on vacations and had a lot of fun together,' Matthew said. I sound like a boastful mom, but I guess the biggest thing is that he could always make me laugh.' 'He was a happy-go-lucky kid,' said his mother, Jeannie Bandy. He actually liked hanging out with his family. 12, 2007— - Sixteen-year-old Matthew Bandy was about as normal a teenager as you could find.